Why Humans Love to Receive Massage: A Physiological and Psychological Perspective
As the IMA Founder I am very often asked why humans love to receive massages, it made me reflect about it and it ended up with this articles. Enjoy.
Massage is one of the oldest and most universal forms of healing. Across cultures and centuries, humans have sought out massage for relaxation, pain relief, and overall well-being. But why do we love to receive massage so much? The answer lies in both the physiology of the body and the psychology of the mind.
The Physiological Reasons: Why Our Bodies Crave Massage
The human body is designed to respond positively to touch. Massage stimulates various systems in the body, triggering beneficial effects that contribute to our love for it.
1. The Release of Feel-Good Hormones
Massage stimulates the release of endorphins, oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine—all chemicals that promote feelings of happiness, relaxation, and well-being.
• Endorphins act as natural painkillers, reducing discomfort and stress.
• Oxytocin, often called the “bonding hormone,” creates feelings of trust and connection.
• Serotonin and dopamine improve mood and help combat anxiety and depression.
2. Reduction of Stress Hormones
Chronic stress leads to an overproduction of cortisol and adrenaline, which keep the body in a constant state of tension. Massage helps lower these stress hormones, bringing the nervous system back to a relaxed state.
3. Improved Circulation and Lymphatic Flow
Massage increases blood flow, delivering more oxygen and nutrients to tissues while helping remove waste products. It also stimulates the lymphatic system, which plays a key role in detoxification and immune function.
4. Muscle Relaxation and Pain Relief
Massage helps to release knots and tension in the muscles by breaking down adhesions and increasing flexibility. This is why massage is commonly used for injury recovery, chronic pain conditions, and post-exercise recovery.
5. Stimulation of the Parasympathetic Nervous System
Massage activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which is responsible for the body’s “rest and digest” response. This slows the heart rate, lowers blood pressure, and promotes deep relaxation.
The Psychological Reasons: Why the Mind Loves Massage
Beyond the physical benefits, massage also meets deep-seated psychological and emotional needs.
1. The Need for Human Touch
Touch is one of the most fundamental human needs. From birth, humans thrive on physical contact. Studies show that touch reduces anxiety, improves mood, and enhances emotional well-being.
2. The Power of Relaxation and Mindfulness
Massage encourages a state of mindfulness, where the receiver can focus on bodily sensations and let go of daily stressors. This break from mental overload is one of the key reasons people seek out massage.
3. Connection and Comfort
Receiving massage fosters a sense of being cared for, which can be deeply therapeutic, especially for people experiencing loneliness or emotional distress. The oxytocin release during massage enhances feelings of connection and security.
4. Mental Reset and Emotional Release
Many people experience emotional release during massage because physical tension is closely tied to emotional stress. By releasing tightness in the body, massage helps process and release stored emotions, leading to a sense of relief and lightness.
5. Association with Self-Care and Reward
Psychologically, massage is often seen as an act of self-care. It provides a moment of escape from daily responsibilities, reinforcing the idea that taking care of oneself is important.
Conclusion: A Deeply Human Experience
Humans love to receive massage because it fulfills both physical and emotional needs. Physiologically, it soothes the nervous system, relieves pain, and boosts well-being. Psychologically, it provides comfort, connection, and a sense of relaxation. In today’s fast-paced world, where stress is constant, massage remains one of the most effective ways to restore balance in both body and mind.
Whether for relaxation, healing, or simply the pleasure of human touch, massage continues to be a universally loved experience that speaks to the very core of our nature.
- Article by Jeppe Tengbjerg (CEO & Founder of the International Massage Association)
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